Once the ball got moving, it really got moving quickly. My current OB (Dr. N) was going to refer me to a hematologist to get my homocysteine levels checked and I finally got that appointment on the books. I will be seeing the hematologist on 9/29. I don't know what to expect from this from this appointment and of course I am nervous. I am always nervous when it comes to a new situation.
Also, I have been pretty frustrated with Dr. N's office. I really like Dr. N, but her nurse and the office staff all seem pretty incompetent. After lots of thought and talking with a good friend I have decided to change OB/Gyns. It just feel like you spend as much (or more) time dealing with the nurse and the office staff as with the doctor when you are actually pregnant and I want to feel like I can trust them. SO...I am going with another office that I think is going to be great. I have already talked to the nurse and she seems really nice. I talked to her about the MTHFR mutation and she assured me that the new doctor (Dr. F) deals with lots of "high risk" patients and he is really good about researching conditions. So, I feel really good about that. I am seeing him in October.
My sweet friend Deni referred me to the Sher Institute and has encouraged me to see a RE. I have been really hesitant. I think my hesitation is that I am afraid the RE is going to say the same thing that my last two OBs have said, "Looks like you have had some really bad luck" and that is just not an okay answer to me. Maybe it's the truth and the only answer we are going to get, but I just don't think I am ready to hear that again. But, Deni assures me that Dr. S is incredibly thorough and that he is all about getting some answers!
So, I gave them a call and they are quick! I have an appointment with them on Friday! WOW! I didn't expect for it to happen so quickly, but I guess it's probably like a band aid...best to just go ahead and rip it off! The office is about 2 hours away from home and "A" isn't sure he is going to be able to take off work so I am a little stressed, but I know it's all going to be okay! I keep telling myself that! (Let me just say, "A" is my rock! I know that if he can't go my mom will go with me and hold my hand and be great, but I really hope "A" can go!!)
See....lots and lots happening! And all of it just came about really quickly! Pray for us that all of these doctors provide some insight. Also pray for the doctors, that they have wisdom and that God would lead all of us in the right direction!
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Halileujah!!! Praise God that you are going to see an RE. Brittany, this is the most wonderful gift that you will ever give to yourself. OB's are wonderful people, but they "Dabble" in fertility issues. Most spend less than 3 months in med school studying reproductive medicine, as its not their specialty. Your problem is a REAL problem and you need to be in the right hands. You need to be at SIRM with Dr. S. He was my friend Amy's Dr and she loved him. They will get to the root of your problem and NOT chalk it up to bad luck.
The ball started rolling when I walked thru the door of my RE's and I am ever so glad I went. I was hesitant too, but so happy I gave in.
Lifting you up and praying for answers for you. So proud of you for taking this step...in the "right" direction. Don't be afraid, you will be well taken care of :)
Many HUGS
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Prayers Sent. Hoping that you get answers. ((HUGS))
Things are moving quickly and it's exciting. I will absolutely say those little prayers for you!
Yay!!! I know you're going to like Dr. S! I know it's all scary and overwhelming, but you will get through this, your cheering squad (me, A, Ninnie, Queenie, and Poppy) are right here behind you! Looking forward to some progress! We can't be afraid to have babies, we have to find answers and treat them!!! Love you!
Wow wow wow! Lots of "new" happening quickly! I can't wait to hear what the doc says!
Hooray for quick appointments!!! Gotta love that!! Especially there! One of the MANY IVF books I have and read was by Dr. Sher and I always hated that I wasn't closer to a clinic!!! (Love mine, though!)
I visit his blog often (even still, don't ask why) and feel like you are on a really great path to something other than "Some really bad luck." I can't believe doctors would even say that. Even if they FELT it, for Pete's sake--THAT's what they teach in medical school? Bad luck??? Oy.
Can't wait to hear how Friday goes!
Wonderful! Can't wait to hear how it goes!! xoxo
OK - now I'm jealous! I wish I could go to the SHER institiute! All the best for all your appointments and I hope you get some good answers and POA that will lead to a healthy live baby for you!
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